The 5 Ways of Love Test

Find out: Which Way of Love suits you?

The PURELEI Advent Calendar 2025 is inspired by the 5 Ways of Love – five wonderful ways to show and receive love. Whether through small gestures, big emotions, or special memories – each of us has our own unique way of expressing love. Do you know yours?

Take the test, write down your answer letters, and find out which love principle suits you best. Discover how to live love.

 

Question 1: When you feel stressed or exhausted, what helps you most?

A) Reading inspirational quotes or looking at works of art that remind me of the beauty in the world.

B) Remind myself that I have everything I need and do a small kind deed for someone else.

C) Take the time to make everything around me more peaceful and friendly.

D) Spend time with family and friends, whether online or in person.

E) Plan a special experience, even if it's just a small moment.

 

Question 2: How do you show your friends that you appreciate them?

A) By telling them how much I admire their special character traits and inner strength.

B) By helping without being asked and offering support where it is needed.

C) By always being an open ear for them and strengthening our friendship through respectful and compassionate actions.

D) By organizing get-togethers that bring us all together.

E) By creating special moments through activities that we can enjoy together.

 

Question 3: Which type of vacation appeals to you most?

A) A retreat in a tranquil spa where I can focus on myself and my physical and mental well-being.

B) Volunteering abroad to support communities and do good.

C) An adventure vacation that brings me into contact with new cultures and broadens my horizons.

D) A family vacation or a reunion with old friends, full of moments of fellowship and togetherness.

E) A trip to world-famous sights – a visit to these unique places will always be remembered.

 

Question 4: How do you react when someone around you needs help?

A) I try to help them see the positive in their situation, even when it's difficult.

B) I offer my support, no matter how small the gesture may be.

C) I offer comfort and show respect to ease their burden.

D) I mobilize others to offer support together.

E) I am happy to help, making sure that the support is truly useful and leaves positive memories.

 

Question 5: What kind of love do you find easiest to show others?

A) I like to give compliments and encourage others with words that highlight their inner beauty.

B) I like to help or take on tasks for others to lighten their load and show kindness.

C) I express affection through hugs or a comforting touch to share closeness and care.

D) I intentionally spend time with the people who are important to me, thereby fostering our connection.

E) I like to give small gifts or surprises that make the other person smile.

 

Question 6: How do you feel most loved?

A) When someone honestly tells me that they appreciate my inner beauty and strength.

B) When someone brings me a small token of appreciation that shows they've been thinking of me.

C) A tight hug that shows me that the person truly appreciates me and cares about my well-being.

D) When someone takes work or a task off my hands, I feel supported and valued.

E) When someone intentionally spends time with me and we create memories together.

 

Question 7: Which element do you feel most connected to?

A) Water – it reflects beauty and tranquility and inspires self-reflection.

B) Earth – it is the ground we walk on, it gives life, nourishes, and provides for us.

C) Air – it surrounds us everywhere and connects people through its invisible presence.

D) Fire – it brings people together and provides warmth.

E) Light – it illuminates the beauty of the world and gives us luminous moments in the sunlight.

 

 

Your result – this is how you live love

Now count which letter you have most often. Your result will show you which Way of Love best reflects your personality:

A – Embracing Beauty

You find love in the beauty of life – inside and out. Whether through words, art, or special experiences: You give love by reminding others and yourself of the beauty of this world. You recognize the good in the small things and inspire others with your eye for what matters most. For you, love means looking at the world with appreciation and wonder – every single day.

B – Giving Kindness

Your love is expressed in actions – honest, selfless, and full of warmth. You are the person who helps without being asked. Compassionate, attentive, and strong in moments when others need it. Your kindness is your superpower – you brighten the world simply by being there. For you, love means achieving great impact through small gestures.

C – Sharing the Aloha Spirit

For you, love is a feeling that grows through positive energy and respect. You radiate warmth, seek connection, and live with an open heart. The Aloha Spirit is more than a concept for you – it's an attitude that you share every day: through affection, mindful gestures, and lived compassion. You bring harmony into relationships and make others feel seen and valued.

D – Celebrating Community

Community is at the heart of you – for you, love means solidarity. You thrive when you bring people together and create genuine connections. Whether it's family, friends, or a team: You strengthen relationships through shared time, listening, and genuine togetherness. For you, love isn't an isolated thing—it's a collective feeling of trust, security, and togetherness.

E – Creating Moments & Memories

You love by creating unforgettable moments. For you, it's not the material value that counts, but the feeling that lasts. You create experiences that touch, inspire, and connect—be it a spontaneous adventure, a lovingly planned gift, or a shared sunset. Your love lives on in memories that warm the heart—long after the moment has passed.

Share your results with others and inspire them to discover their own personal Way of Love. Get the PURELEI Advent Calendar 2025 for a December full of love, jewelry & aloha.

With Love, PURELEI